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Since this article is very short I'd like to make some brief points to add positivity and objectivity. 1. The article doesn't say what a "normal" relationship with an overweight partner is. In most relationships a spouse prefers and compliments their partner's appearance or is specifically looking for someone like them, so if a single woman has suitors whether they want to take her out to a restaurant because she likes food or play sports because she is athletic it is the same kind of relationship. There is a recent study that happy couples tend to gain weight as the result of a good relationship. 2. A feeder can be someone who gives food to others as an example of altruism, with no relationship required. It is also common for ordinary couples to engage in feeder-like behavior such as a food offering as a sign of romance. 3. I call this the "ones and zeros" argument. If society is divided into two demographics (thin and round), it is strange that only "ones" study "zeros" (all experts are athletic, all round people are patients), therefore it is acceptable to use bias and decide what is "normal" or a "fetish" because the demographic doesn't write the articles. 4. A heterosexual relationship with a woman who is heavier than another woman is not "paraphilia", it is a normal biological relationship that is less deviant than even homosexuality because the couple is able to reproduce. The word paraphilia dehumanizes the partner as if they were an object.

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